I Was Going To Post Yesterday, But...
I was going to drop a note on here yesterday, but my computer is too far from my bed... and I didn't get very far from my pillows all day long... my bachelor party was Friday night, and, well... it was a very good time... and I get these HORRIBLE hangovers, so...
My buddies (2 of the GREATEST guys in the world) rented the balcony of our favorite local exotic dance establishment... they also chained and locked a 14 lb. bowling ball (wrapped the ball in duct tape, taped and locked a 5/8" chain to it very well) to my leg... I went around all evening long (7pm to 2am) carrying that ball everywhere I went (to the bathroom like 5 times... up and down stairs, LONG walk across the main floor)... they locked it with a combination lock (3 numbers to unlock) and gave 6 numbers to 6 dancers... starting at 8, I got a private dance every hour until I had all 6 numbers, then I was supposed to figure out which 3 numbers were the combination, and in which order... needless to say, I had to cheat at the end of the night and get one of my buddies to tell me the combination so I could go to bed when I got home... but, it was DEFINITELY a helluva night...
One final, "last hurrah" as they say, and... well, it's weird that we're finally going to put the "icing on the cake" that has been our relationship and our love... we've been together so long, I can't even begin to imagine what my life would be like if we weren't...
It's weird, I've never really been "on my own" like a lot of people... I mean, I haven't ALWAYS been in a relationship, but I've never, like, had my own place, worried about my own bills all alone, had a job that just supported me (except for a couple of low-paying jobs traveling with carnivals... but, I had no bills and always shared a living space, so I wasn't really on my own...) and had any REAL amount of money to myself...
But, as they say, you can't really miss what you've never really had... also, I don't think I would have lasted long on my own without SOMEONE grabbing on to me and not letting go (it always seemed like there's been a girl/woman waiting), so I don't really think I'd do very well on my own...
The world (and I) will never know...
Peace...
My buddies (2 of the GREATEST guys in the world) rented the balcony of our favorite local exotic dance establishment... they also chained and locked a 14 lb. bowling ball (wrapped the ball in duct tape, taped and locked a 5/8" chain to it very well) to my leg... I went around all evening long (7pm to 2am) carrying that ball everywhere I went (to the bathroom like 5 times... up and down stairs, LONG walk across the main floor)... they locked it with a combination lock (3 numbers to unlock) and gave 6 numbers to 6 dancers... starting at 8, I got a private dance every hour until I had all 6 numbers, then I was supposed to figure out which 3 numbers were the combination, and in which order... needless to say, I had to cheat at the end of the night and get one of my buddies to tell me the combination so I could go to bed when I got home... but, it was DEFINITELY a helluva night...
One final, "last hurrah" as they say, and... well, it's weird that we're finally going to put the "icing on the cake" that has been our relationship and our love... we've been together so long, I can't even begin to imagine what my life would be like if we weren't...
It's weird, I've never really been "on my own" like a lot of people... I mean, I haven't ALWAYS been in a relationship, but I've never, like, had my own place, worried about my own bills all alone, had a job that just supported me (except for a couple of low-paying jobs traveling with carnivals... but, I had no bills and always shared a living space, so I wasn't really on my own...) and had any REAL amount of money to myself...
But, as they say, you can't really miss what you've never really had... also, I don't think I would have lasted long on my own without SOMEONE grabbing on to me and not letting go (it always seemed like there's been a girl/woman waiting), so I don't really think I'd do very well on my own...
The world (and I) will never know...
Peace...
posted by julio at 4:58 PM
2 Prayers:
sounds like fun - our wedding was kind of a last minute thing so my husband didn't get a bachelor party :(
sometimes I think about throwing him one myself - ya never know.... maybe one day I will
HOLY CRAP that was some word verification!!!
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